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Am I Cheating On My Boyfriend?

Am I Cheating On My Boyfriend?

I'm Gelai from the Philippines. Lots of things are important to me. But my family comes first. Then my friends, and my studies.

You see, I had a best friend in high school. And he's a guy. Then when we reached the middle of high school, I started having feelings for him. But I know he doesn't feel the same way. That's why I tried to let him go. After high school, I met lots of other guys and got into relationships with a couple of them. I know I love my boyfriend now but it seems that the ghost of my first love keep on haunting me. Especially now that we opened our communication again after all those years.

I just kept my attention to my boyfriend. But recently, he started to doubt my faithfulness to him. I don't know if it’s because of my high school friend or just some speculation.

My life hasn't changed. I just keep on telling my boyfriend that he is the one I love, which is true. I love him dearly and I don't want to lose him.

I don't know if my being close to my high school friend is cheating. Am I two timing them? My feeling for my high school friend has long been gone but I still feel guilty when we go out together.

Men and women are social beings. It is innate in us to seek, establish, and nurture relationships. From the time we are born, we are trained and encouraged to develop harmonious interaction with everyone as much as possible. So it is only natural that along the way, we build long and lasting friendships. The problem lies when we are unable to distinguish when friends become something more to us. Sometimes the line gets blurred we cant identify anymore. It’s easy to succumb to emotions rather than reasoning.

Our quest for friendship is a result of the void we feel within, a thirst for someone to accept us and love us for who we are. This feeling of emptiness will never cease to persist until we find that "thing" that can fill up the void.

If there’s one friend who will remain faithful and loyal to us, and who can fill that vacuum, it is Jesus. When we are one with Christ, it is easy to do the things we’re supposed to do.His will becomes our will, therefore we are not led astray. Just like a shepherd, he leads us to safety. The sheep follow Him because they recognize His voice.

Section 2.13 of the Book of Hope tells us how the shepherd tends his flock.

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