He Lied To Me About Everything
I am from Pakistan. I have a family of four, parents, my elder brother and me. Brother is married. I am 24 yrs old. Honesty and devotion are very important to me.
When I was 20 I fell in love with someone over the net, from another city. He was so good to me, loved me and cared for me. We met and it was like we would never leave each other. He came to my house, met my family and promised to propose. Only after sometime, I found out the reality. He lied to me about everything, his phone number, his address, his job. He lied to me that he had told his family and they were coming over to meet mine. The truth was that he was already engaged and had slept with many girls before he got involved with me. I could never forget him, the betrayal. Now he is married, his wife pregnant and prettier than me. where as I am alone, lonely and single. Burning in deprivation. I wonder what he got out of this drama. And will ever God have mercy on me. I cried and cried and for years and even till now I have not forgotten him. He was my first love. And now when I bump into him i realize how happy he is and how stupid i was to get into something so blindly on the net.
My life is stagnant. I am looking for an educated, decent man to love me and marry me to share my feelings and emotions. I have become more careful with guys now but the craving is still there. The want of an honest person as my husband who would love me for what i am.
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Everyone is looking for love and honesty in their lives. We want to be treated with respect and given the value that we deserve. Shouldn’t that be obvious? But it is not a reality in our world. People hurt each other . . . they put their lives before everyone else’s . . . they don’t do anything when you suffer. It is everywhere.
But just like sin is everywhere, good is everywhere if you look in the right places. The main thing you are sad about is that you thought you had love and that love and acceptance disappeared. So you need to find love again. But human love will only satisfy temporarily. It will be great for one moment and then be gone for the next . . . because no one is perfect.
There is a love that is different than the love a friend, lover, or family member can give you. It is different because it never changes or goes away. One night Jesus shared about this love to a lonely guy in Jerusalem and it changed his life forever. Check it out. Section 2.1 of the Book of Hope.
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